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Aug 61 min read

283: Mile 700

When the movers load the last box onto the truck and you are left at the edge of it all, stand in your empty apartment and sing. Let the...

May 61 min read

281: Tell Me Again

My therapist said Where would you like to start? I thought to myself, where does one begin? We could start with how beautiful it all is,...

Mar 21 min read

277: More Please

I woke up praying today, the words already on my lips. Some days are like that. The holiness of it all finds me before my feet find the...

Feb 191 min read

276: Forget about the Speed of Light

What about the speed of honey? If we moved at a glacially slow pace, would our days be sweeter? Would we lay on the floor, turn our faces...

Feb 171 min read

275: Ooey Gooey

I have to remind you to look at the camera because you’re always looking at me. Has there ever been a sweeter love? Here’s my heart, ooey...

Feb 31 min read

273: Here's a new morning...

sun drenched, coffee stained, just as holy as the first one. Here’s a new morning for our bleary eyes, for our hopeful hearts, for the...

Mar 7, 20231 min read

248: Live From The Furbo

Every night we sit on the couch. Your arm around my shoulders, my knees pulled towards my chest. We eat dinner. We talk about the day....

Feb 23, 20231 min read

246: In Sickness and in Health, In Chaos and Control

We take turns being chaos and control. Someone’s gotta keep the fire burning and someone’s gotta sing that Celine Dion ballad at top...

Feb 23, 20231 min read

245: Hold Them Close

You only need one in the city - one friend who says text me when you get home, who remembers your brother’s name, who knows the way you...

Sep 19, 20221 min read

223: Instead of Spending All Our Money

I’d like to buy a fig tree for the living room, a cardigan for the plane, new prints for the walls We’ve talked about buying herbs for...

Sep 19, 20221 min read

222: The Last Day of Summer

We’re approaching a new season. Like children with a firefly cupped in our hands we hold onto summer’s warmth, carrying it with us as we...

Sep 2, 20221 min read

221: The Best Part About New York

The best part about New York is the bagels / the sunset between the avenues / bodega cats / the couples that walk through the park...

Sep 2, 20221 min read

220: Breadcrumbs

Some days are breadcrumb days- the kind of days where you wake up and say, “God, please lean a little closer in a not so subtle way...

Sep 2, 20221 min read

219: Summer

We are sun-kissed, one part salt water, one part watermelon juice running down our chins. At dusk the clouds look like they have...

Sep 2, 20221 min read

218: A Filling Up

There’s enough time for one more kiss for caramelized onions on low heat, for handwritten I’m just thinking of you cards. There’s enough...

Jul 16, 20221 min read

216: Lightning Bugs

Lighting Bugs You caught a lightning bug in your hand gently, slowly, more like a landing ramp than a trap. You held it to me as if to...

Jul 4, 20221 min read

215: It's About Damn time

For dinner to be ready, for the end of body shaming, for summer thunderstorms, for the peaches to ripen, for you to call me back, for a...

Jun 11, 20221 min read

211: To The Dad On The M5 Bus

with the daughter in the bucket hat and the son hanging off your leg, you deserve a medal. You deserve days off and jewels in your crown....

Apr 25, 20221 min read

204: Opening Up

You did such a good job opening up! That’s what I say to the flowers. You did such a good job looking up, turning towards the sun,...

Mar 24, 20221 min read

198: I Get The Daylight Savings Conversation

Because of course we need more light. War is one long night. Of course we need slower sunsets and golden hour. We need the sun’s warmth...